
Stage Notes
Aug 12, 2025
This is the pep talk for when you’re questioning why you started in the first place — and the reminder that, yes, you can keep going.
Let’s be real — acting is magical, but it’s also the kind of career that will test your patience, your self-esteem, and sometimes your ability to pay rent. You’ll face rejections, long stretches without work, and the occasional existential crisis about whether you should just go become a dentist instead.
Why You Started Matters
Remember the spark? That moment you knew you wanted to do this for real? For some, it was watching Hamilton and thinking, “Yeah, I could totally be Eliza.” For others, it was getting their first laugh on stage in middle school. Write that memory down. Put it somewhere you’ll see when the grind gets rough.
The 3 M’s of Actor Motivation
1. Mindset
You will not book every audition. In fact, you will book very few — and that’s normal. Success in acting is about perseverance. Focus on the process, not just the outcome. Celebrate every audition as proof you’re in the game.
2. Momentum
Keep moving. Take classes, film self-tapes for practice, read plays, join scene study groups. Even if you’re not working, you’re training.
3. Mentorship
Surround yourself with people who understand the journey — whether that’s a coach, a trusted acting friend, or a Facebook group full of theater nerds who hype each other up.
Turning Rejection into Fuel
It’s easy to take “no” personally, but casting is about so much more than your talent — type, look, chemistry, timing, and a thousand other things. Reframe rejection as a step forward: every audition is a relationship with a casting office that could pay off later.
Inspiration on Tap
Here are a few places to go when you need a boost:
Podcasts: Audrey Helps Actors, The Actor’s Diet
Books: The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron, Respect for Acting by Uta Hagen (again, because it’s THAT good)
YouTube Channels: Amy Jo Berman’s casting tips, Backstage’s advice videos
Your Actor’s Journal: Write about what you learned in every audition, class, or performance — the good, the bad, the weird.
Final Takeaway
Motivation isn’t a permanent state — it’s something you refill regularly, like gas in a car. Keep reminding yourself why you love this, keep building your skills, and surround yourself with voices that lift you up.
Your career will be a marathon, not a sprint — but the view at the finish line? Worth it.